"love is a choice"
from Eleanor's wedding speech last night, it really served to enlighten me and address some questions that have been bugging me. i got this from her speech (from my foggy memory):
love is a choice; we wake up every different day and consciously choose to love someone. as women, we tend to play the "if you love me, why can't you be more romantic" card. but at the end of the long years of being together, feelings subside and emotions fade, and what keeps two people together at the end of it, is the continuous choice to do so.
